Confronting an Angry Boss - Anger Management

We all have had to confront an angry boss once inissuing a blank apology (should he or she be correct)
our lives, and many of us have this on a daily basis.and say "I was not aware that my actions caused
The anger is the bosses, and not ours, and the worstsuch a reaction. If I in anyway made the error you
thing that can happen is to react to wrongly. Follow ourdescribe, please give me the chance to correct it or
advise on confronting an angry boss and instead ofmake up for it". It is very difficult to maintain a
being fired, you might even get a raise.belligerent attitude to someone who is trying to redress
The Real Relations between Boss and Employeethe error.
One is reminded to listen to the song of Bob Dylan,Reaction to the Angry Boss in Error
"Everybody Got to Serve Somebody" . Even if youIt could be your angry boss has erred, and you are not
are self-employed there will be people you answer to.responsible for the anger being projected. Even more
The presidents of great countries are answerable tothan in the initial reaction, your reaction in this case has
many besides themselves. We all, in this life, will serveto be silence. It tales two to tango and should you
somebody else. Given this fact, and looking objectivelychoose not to dance here, the tango will quickly end.
at the boss-employee relationship, the matter ofYour next reaction can be, "I understand why you are
servitude it only relative.so angered, and justifiably so. However I assure you
The Angry Bossthat I as far as I know, I am not responsible for this
Without full knowledge of the boss's psychology, andsituation. Perhaps I can assist you in discovering how
motives, the angry boss can be real enigma. As ansuch an error was made, and help you correct it if
employee you might have erred, and in fact, causedpossible"
the boss a great deal of trouble. When he or sheUnless your boss is void of intelligence (which is not
confronts you with the situation, how you react to theusually so if someone has made the managerial
anger will make all the difference. The idea is tostatus), your reaction will cause him or her to pause
metamorphosize the boss's anger into constructiveand consider you may not be the subject of his or her
energy. Should you be able to do that, you might doanger.
more than save your job, but also you may findCooling the Situation Down
yourself with a promotion or rise.If you are able to cool down the situation and the
Initial Reaction to the Angry Bossboss's anger as well, you may be able to truly assist
If you find yourself be approached by someonethe person in charge to find a good way to correct
screaming or being in any way abusive the worst thingthe error or reason for being angry. If no solution can
you can do is to start reacting in the same way orbe found, you can certainly assist in damage control.
manner. Keeping still and quiet initially is a very goodYour attitude will be very well appreciated. We hope
idea, while maintaining the thought, "is he or sheyou follow our advice and get that rise and perhaps
correct? Have I done that" . When you have a chancepromotion. Remember, we all have to serve
to speak, you might begin the disarming process bysomebody.