| If you're not used to approaching and talking to | | | | couldn't be more opposite as it is! Oftentimes people |
| attractive women, it can seem like a daunting task. | | | | will think they are opposites while neglecting to see |
| Many men have been conditioned over the years to | | | | more of the things they have in common; at least |
| believe that the more attractive a woman is the more | | | | when it comes to attraction. Men with emotional issues |
| likely she'll be out of his league. While nothing could be | | | | tend to attract women with emotional issues. An |
| further from the truth, many men still believe this | | | | example of this is a man who is a rescuer-type, who |
| because it is reinforced by movies, television, their | | | | looks for women in distress in hopes of saving them |
| peers, and, in fact, it's all around them. | | | | from whatever challenges they are facing in their life. |
| I'm going to make dating attractive women as simple | | | | Since we attract what we are, the first step in dating |
| as possible for you. Keep in mind I didn't write that it | | | | attractive women is working toward making yourself |
| was going to be easy. Making something simple | | | | more attractive emotionally, mentally, intellectually, |
| doesn't necessarily make it easy. In fact, I've learned | | | | financially, and physically. This is very important |
| over the years that anything worth while in life is worth | | | | because when you've got your life and act together, |
| working towards anyway. Men tend to over | | | | you have higher social value and thus become more |
| complicate things in their mind. They begin accessing | | | | attractive to a wider variety of women. To use myself |
| life long beliefs such as "she's too pretty for me" or "I | | | | as an example, when I first turned my dating and social |
| have nothing to offer" or "she probably only wants a | | | | life around many years ago I made a commitment to |
| man with a lot of money". | | | | lose weight and get into shape. I also made an effort |
| Most men with those limiting beliefs don't see how | | | | to get out of the house more often. I made it point to |
| wrong they really are. The cold hard fact is that | | | | meet new people. I took salsa lessons, went to wine |
| attractive women come in all shapes and sizes. There | | | | tasting events, and even tried my hand at speed |
| are good ones and there are bad ones, and everything | | | | dating (which was always an adventure). |
| else in between. The key is to find a woman that you | | | | Don't underestimate how powerful this simple the |
| find attractive who is also attracted to you. Sounds | | | | concept is of attracting what you are. Within just a |
| simple enough right? For some it seems like a large | | | | few short months, I had changed my body, my mental |
| mountain to climb, but it really isn't. | | | | state, and grew my social network enough where I |
| The first thing to focus on is my own personal belief is | | | | had plenty of opportunities to meet and date women. It |
| that people attract what they are. Let me emphasize | | | | all starts by making a commitment today to focusing |
| this because it's a critical point. Too often people will | | | | on yourself first so that meeting attractive women will |
| say things like "opposites attract", which I have always | | | | eventually seem almost effortless. |
| found to be humorous because men and women | | | | |
