| Why should divorce be the ONLY answer to a | | | | my marriage. It is all about communication and that |
| marriage which is teetering on the brink? Divorce rates | | | | means talking but not just airy fairy mundane |
| are shooting up maybe because couples are just not | | | | everyday household things but being honest and open |
| making that effort to go the extra mile. | | | | about everything with my spouse or partner. Talking |
| Saving a marriage needs a bit of effort - it takes two | | | | calmly and having a friendly chat about a problem or |
| to tango ! One of the first things you can do is seek | | | | my feelings will make it so much easier to iron out a |
| help and that means counselling. Having a mediator | | | | difficulty or stumbling block. |
| who can sort through some of the issues which are | | | | There is no space for sulking here! |
| preventing you from saving your marriage is money | | | | The third way I learnt when married was to accept |
| well spent. | | | | compromises. I have to accept that I am not going to |
| There are other ways of saving the relationship | | | | get my own way all the time, and neither is my partner. |
| marriage in addition to counselling. I want to set out just | | | | It is the give and take that make for solid marriages |
| four ways you can utilise which are not difficult to | | | | and these are the ones which never have to employ a |
| implement and will really improve your chances of | | | | counsellor to save the marriage. Going half way was a |
| getting back together again. If both partners can work | | | | great way to save my marriage and I was surprised |
| towards that objective, then that is half the battle and | | | | at what I learnt along the way. |
| you will be well on the way to avoiding a difficult or | | | | And what about commitment? We made vows |
| messy divorce. | | | | promises - call them what you will but they represent a |
| I always thought marriage was going to be an easy | | | | commitment to each other and why should that be |
| ride and then I learnt the hard way. Living together is | | | | broken or cast aside just because there is a stumbling |
| even more difficult - marriage would be great if we | | | | block and you may think there is no way to save the |
| could live apart ! Sometimes small irritations which at | | | | relationship. This is the fourth pillar in the building - in a |
| first seem like no big deal become enormous barriers | | | | way it is the master wall. |
| and can sometimes be blown up just to justify some | | | | If the damage is not irreparable then you can save |
| action/remark or argument. The perfect partner does | | | | your marriage. The four ways above are just the |
| not exist and I do not know any couples like that - if | | | | pillars to build a foundation on and there are loads of |
| they tell me that, well, they are lying. The marriage | | | | tips and strategies to make upin the link below. You |
| vows are all about ups and downs - in sickness or in | | | | can join the thousands of people who have used this |
| health and that applies to almost every aspect of | | | | method with such success that it has blown everyone |
| marriage and just recognising that and NOT | | | | away but not their marriages. You can learn a host of |
| demanding perfection in my partner is the first way I | | | | things that you never even thought could actually put |
| can save my marriage. | | | | the pieces back together and save the marriage. |
| That brings me to the second way I was able to save | | | | |
