| Lets keep the nightclub creepy factor to a minimum. | | | | Fortune favors the brave - the best way to engage in |
| Dance floors are perhaps the most fickle place in the | | | | grinding is to engage in grinding. Sounds easy right? |
| club. Confidence, looks, dance skills win the day here. In | | | | Well it is, simply go straight up to a girl, grab her waist |
| that order. There are a few ways to engage in | | | | or her forearm and pull her into you to grind dance. |
| grinding, here's how to get girls to grind dance at | | | | This has to be done with a smile and NO hesitation. |
| nightclubs: | | | | Any hint of fear or reluctance will ruin this move. You |
| The stealth approach - a.k.a sneak up from behind | | | | also cannot orbit around her pumping yourself up to do |
| while she's not looking. While this approach is unlikely to | | | | it. It has to be immediate after you see the girl; |
| lead anywhere after a dance and may be | | | | otherwise it will color your approach with neediness. |
| uncomfortable for some girls, it is the textbook easy | | | | This approach will also likely give you the highest |
| way to engage in grinding. There are better ways but | | | | success rate in continuing the interaction off the dance |
| if you do decide to go this route, look for girls in pairs | | | | floor ;) |
| or groups where there friends are already grinding. | | | | Overall the dance floor is a tricky place, you have to |
| These girls need to prove to their friends they are | | | | be very sure of yourself. I suggest taking introductory |
| attractive and will grind dance with you simply for the | | | | hip hop and salsa lessons so that you at least know |
| social proof. | | | | how to move out there by yourself and with a girl. I |
| The copycat - another way to get yourself into a | | | | also suggest doing this with at most one other person, |
| grinding position is to find a girl and slowly work your | | | | having a team of guys ogling the girl you grind dance |
| way into her space. You do this by dancing in front of | | | | with from the side is not attractive. Keep in mind that |
| her with a smile. You should be about half a meter | | | | confidence in this case overrides everything, a guy |
| away and start to synchronize your movements with | | | | who is confident will outshine an excellent dancer. So |
| her. So if she is pushing forward you lean back, and | | | | don't hesitate. |
| than you push forward. You should than start leading | | | | Being able to approach a girl on the dance floor is only |
| the movements and if she follows, grab her hand and | | | | one skill you need to be successful with dating. You |
| spin her around and pull her into you. Proceed to grind | | | | need an education on approaching and attracting the |
| dance. | | | | type of women you deserve. |
