| Here's a fun idea for anyone who wants to help get | | | | gingerbread men! |
| the word out that it's okay to talk about Domestic | | | | The important thing is to interact and feel comfortable |
| Abuse: | | | | about it. Make sure it is held in a safe place. You can |
| Initiate a "You Don't Own Me" party | | | | print handouts from the Traits and Characteristics |
| Organize a get-together where it's okay to talk and | | | | page for your guests to read and take home. Do your |
| laugh and cry about occurrences in your lives: | | | | homework and have a list of professional counselors |
| · Specify that it will be a place to share and | | | | in your area available (look for family counseling, |
| not feel judged. | | | | court-appointed domestic violence counselors, |
| · Have casual food; it doesn't have to be | | | | women's shelter groups, etc). Let people know how |
| anything fancy. | | | | important it is to be supportive, to be a true friend, to |
| · Light all those scented candles. | | | | offer a place to go where you'll keep a change of |
| · Maybe suggest people bring throw pillows to | | | | clothes and will make help available. |
| lounge on, hug, or pound on, as the case may warrant. | | | | A group shoulder to lean on can do a world of good |
| · Rent a feel-good movie that helps the mood | | | | and make a difference in helping someone in harm's |
| along. Something like "First Wives Club", "Chocolat", or | | | | way understand they are not alone and can make a |
| "The Tango Lesson"; just as long as it conveys a | | | | change. Often it is much easier for a woman in peril to |
| feeling of strength and accomplishment and makes | | | | talk to a friend or in a casual group first before |
| you feel like you can identify somehow. | | | | deciding she is ready to take further strides with |
| · Create a special moment by toasting each | | | | professional and/or legal help. You may very well be |
| other with statements of affirmation of what you're | | | | the catalyst that helps someone make the brave |
| going to do, even if it's a small step. Hey, and if you're | | | | move to freedom and safety. |
| feeling bold, you can perform the toast by eating | | | | |
