| u want to pick up women, the first thing you need to | | | | tricks to attract women, with a smile and long glance, it |
| do is ask yourself why? Are you looking for a | | | | all depends. |
| one-night stand or are you looking for your future | | | | Once you have decided on your approach, if you |
| wife? | | | | haven’t already, it is a good idea to try to make |
| I don’t think that your approach varies too | | | | her laugh. Either by your self effacing behavior or your |
| drastically in each of these scenarios, but you may be | | | | wit or you silly jokes. Once she laughs, her barriers are |
| looking for two different types of women. Someone | | | | down and you have a chance of her really getting to |
| who is OK for one night may not be the one you want | | | | know you. |
| to spend your life with. So what you should do is know | | | | If you have done your homework, you can tell |
| what you want before you go looking. | | | | immediately by her body language if she is responding |
| What I mean by that is know what traits you are | | | | to your advances. If she is, keep on going, but |
| looking for in a woman. Put these characteristics and | | | | don’t lay it on too thick. I think the key is to treat |
| qualities down on paper. That way you won’t | | | | her just like anybody else you have just met in any |
| be sidetracked by a beautiful package if the rest of | | | | other scenario, but to add a very subtle, very small |
| what you are looking for is not there. Or, conversely, if | | | | flirtation element to the interaction. That way she |
| all you want is a beautiful woman then you | | | | understands you are not looking for a new best friend |
| won’t worry about the other qualities that | | | | that you are interested in her as a woman. |
| don’t cut it. | | | | Don’t stick around too long. You want her to |
| In addition to knowing what you do want, it helps to | | | | know you are a busy guy with lots of fun interesting |
| write down what you DON’T want. This helps | | | | things going on in your life, but that you would definitely |
| clarify what you are looking for in a woman and can | | | | like to meet up with her at another time. This is when |
| save you a lot of time. | | | | you can get her phone number and give her yours, if |
| OK, now that you know what you are looking for, start | | | | that is your style. |
| the hunt. Based on the kind of woman you are looking | | | | I wouldn’t call her the next day, but you might |
| for, you can decide if you are going to find her at the | | | | want to text her later that night, saying it was great |
| farmer’s market, at the trendy bookstore, at | | | | meeting her and you hope to be able to talk to her |
| the ballroom dancing class, at the library, on the | | | | more at a later date. |
| volleyball court, at the hip night club or at the corner | | | | If she responds immediately, you can continue the |
| bar. | | | | conversation from there, but if she doesn’t then |
| When you see a woman you want to meet, you can | | | | I would wait and call her the following day and arrange |
| try several approaches. You can try to pick her up | | | | a time to hang out. Good luck. |
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