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| There is a strategy that really works. Countless people | | | | well-informed, smart action. That's why saving a |
| have rescued troubled marriages from the very brink | | | | marriage from the clutches of divorce inevitably |
| of divorce by adhering to these three key principles. | | | | involves doing things the right way--based on expert |
| First, at least one spouse understands the need to | | | | wisdom and advice--instead of on following one's |
| take action. That might sound fairly obvious, but it's also | | | | "intuition". |
| quite significant on two different fronts. Not only is it | | | | Third, saving a marriage is not an overnight process |
| important that wishing and hoping won't get the job | | | | and it isn't really the end objection. Saving a marriage |
| done and that only by taking action can one really | | | | will take some time and effort. The idea that some |
| hope to save a marriage. | | | | singular grand gesture will suddenly set everything right |
| It's equally essential to understand that it only takes | | | | just isn't realistic. It takes changes and involves making |
| one committed spouse to get things done. That's | | | | progress over some period of time. |
| right--it does not take two to tango! One spouse can | | | | Additionally, the goal isn't really to save a marriage "as |
| set a chain of events into motion that will result in an | | | | it is". The real goal should be saving and improving the |
| improved situation. | | | | marriage. Your final objective is to create a lasting, |
| Second, anyone who wants to understand how to | | | | sustainable, supportive and loving relationship. That |
| save marriage when things look bleak also needs to | | | | goes beyond simple dodging a date in divorce court. |
| recognize that taking action based on gut instinct or | | | | It's also one reason why an expert blueprint for action |
| hunches is ill-advised. Let's be frank. Most of us are not | | | | makes so much sense. Quality guidance about how to |
| experts in human relationships and we don't really | | | | save marriage focuses on creating the kind of |
| have a clear view of what makes marriages work. | | | | foundation that can lead to the end results you really |
| We're novices. | | | | want and deserve. |
