| >>If you want a second chance with your ex, | | | | slipped up before...but don't answer her calls!) |
| you need to check outthis before you do ANYTHING | | | | Whatever you hear from your ex, answer her with |
| ELSE: | | | | really short positive statements, followed by, "you'll get |
| Going through a break is such a tough emotional | | | | back to her". For example, if she texts you asking how |
| experience that I wouldn't wish it upon my worst | | | | you've been, just answer with something similar to |
| enemies, but if you want to know how to win your | | | | "cool, I'm about to head off to my surfing lessons, I'll get |
| girlfriend back as fast as possible, then you need to | | | | back to you later". Don't ask her how she's been or |
| read every last word on this page, plan your strategy | | | | respond if she tells you that she's having problems with |
| and take action. | | | | something. Stay laser focused! |
| 1. Cutting off any communication is the first thing you | | | | OK, back to staying focused... |
| must absolutely do. Don't make a big deal out of it | | | | 4. Women - It would be a good idea to call up your |
| either. Don't announce it to her or even hint at it. Just | | | | buddies and go out. Meet new women! Like I said |
| disappear. This will probably be rough on you, but hang | | | | above about learning something new, take a salsa or |
| in tough. It doesn't matter if her birthday is coming up or | | | | ballroom dance class! If you can't, set up your profile |
| that you previously promised her little brother that | | | | on an online singles site and have fun. Look, I'm not |
| you're going to take him to the ballgame. Now this is | | | | asking for you to replace your ex or to go on a dates |
| counterintuitive to what a lot of guys want to do. And | | | | with other women. (It won't hurt though) I'm helping you |
| it's true, a lot of men, want to "show" that they care or | | | | keep your mind off of things. Remember, I'm here to |
| they want to try to "convince" their exes to reconsider, | | | | show you the right path, whether it sounds logical to |
| but they just wind up pushing their exes further away, | | | | you or not. Going through a breakup will make you |
| and most times, for good...because what most guys | | | | think irrationally, and you will look needy. And in case |
| think they should do does not work. Cutting off | | | | that you haven't heard - being needy will push your ex |
| communication will create a vacuum and more | | | | away for good. |
| importantly will indirectly show your girlfriend that you | | | | The BIG problem with neediness is that women, |
| have a backbone, and this my friend is what | | | | especially an ex, can smell it a mile away no matter |
| separates the men from the boys. This will have her | | | | how much you fake it. Keeping your mind constantly in |
| wondering, why she hasn't heard from you. And this is | | | | motion will help you grow as a NEW man and make |
| the start of rekindling that the small embers that your | | | | you less needy. |
| ex still has for you. | | | | Usually between one or two months, if you did |
| 2. Take on a new challenge - Learn something new or | | | | everything right, your ex is probably really wondering |
| set new goals for yourself. Take a Mixed Martial Arts | | | | what you've been up to. This is the perfect time to set |
| class, learn how to bartend, take a personal sabbatical | | | | up your first "meeting". Don't set up anything boring. Tell |
| and travel the world. Do something new, anything! You | | | | her that you need to go shopping for your niece's |
| know what I'm saying? Always move forward. I know | | | | birthday or even better, take your niece out to an |
| it can be tough to even get out of your bed, but this is | | | | amusement park and ask your ex if she wants to go! |
| the perfect time to heal by taking your mind off of | | | | There are so many ways to go about it but you must |
| things...the more physical the better. For me personally, | | | | do something... |
| when I was going through a traumatic break-up a few | | | | Exciting and cool! |
| years ago, I ran marathon and took surfing lessons. | | | | Create good memories, and do not ever bring up the |
| You could never learn too much. When you are living | | | | past. Do not talk about anything negative or put any |
| life too it's fullest, people in general will gravitate to you. | | | | blame on anything. You are past all of that! |
| Remember that. | | | | Now listen up, read carefully, and take action... |
| 3. I need to say something! - Oops, you slipped! So let's | | | | I don't want to scare you, but in situations like this, time |
| say that your ex just sent you a text or an email and | | | | is NOT on your side... Your Ex is constantly coming |
| you just can't stand letting the message just sit there | | | | across new, exciting and cool guys...(i.e. your |
| and you have to say something. (I would still highly | | | | competition!) every single day... |
| suggest for you to keep quiet, but I, myself have | | | | |
