| Marriage is the holy union of two individuals as well as | | | | will be strong as now you know the likes and dislikes |
| their families. But a long lasting marriage is the union of | | | | and the nature of the other person. Also after the initial |
| values, ideas, morals and principles of two individuals as | | | | years you will have now seen good and bad times |
| well as the families. | | | | together so the bond will be stronger than ever. |
| Marriage is not about just two persons living together | | | | Trust is another key factor to marriage. Nothing can |
| but it is about how well you can adjust as a person to | | | | replace that trust and you need to trust the partner in |
| another personality. To make marriage in the initial | | | | all good faith. If do not have trust in the other person |
| years you need to understand the other persons view | | | | then you need to evaluate the reason as to why it is |
| points and be patient with the other person. In fact in | | | | not and then correct the reason or confront the other |
| the initial years there will be a lot of situations where | | | | person. |
| things can go out of hand and can result in fight and | | | | Then there is recourse to the marriage counselor. Do |
| quarrels. It is these situations that you need to monitor | | | | not hesitate to seek outside help generally a |
| carefully and make sure that you keep you cool and | | | | professional as that can give a new perspective to |
| do not take aggressive stance. | | | | your thoughts which you were not aware of. Most of |
| Another major factor to consider is that you should | | | | the times the counselor will help you get over tiny or |
| not try to change the other person. The key is to | | | | trivial matter which are bothering you about the other |
| understand the other person and adjust not change. It | | | | person. Sometimes you get engrossed in thinking |
| is not easy to change somebody's personality at an | | | | yourself as right that you can actually neglect the other |
| age where over the years all the habits have been | | | | person's thoughts and opinions. |
| baked into the personality. If both the partners can | | | | Remember it takes two to tango to make marriage |
| understand this golden rule the marriage will not have | | | | work. So be patient and things will work smoothly and |
| any problems. | | | | will make your marriage long lasting. |
| After the initial years generally the marriage foundation | | | | |
