| There is a very fine line between "avoiding a man" and | | | | scheduled activities. Have a nice, sweet conversation |
| "being there but out-of-reach". Avoiding him and making | | | | with him... but, oops, you have an appointment, gotta go. |
| up excuses not to see him will only give the impression | | | | Wear a scent that is solely yours. |
| that you are no longer interested, hence he will | | | | Make sure you wear that scent he loves, the one he |
| assume that he is in for a real heartbreak. | | | | has associated with you. A whiff of your scent (if you |
| But making him chase you will challenge him - he will | | | | pass him by the corridor, for instance) will make |
| work harder for you. If you want him to miss you, you | | | | memories resurface and he will begin to miss being |
| might want to consider the following strategies instead: | | | | with you. |
| Fill up your calendar. | | | | Make sure you look great. |
| Instead of thinking up of ways not to see or talk to him, | | | | And don't forget to look your best. If you want him to |
| why not be truly unavailable? Keep yourself busy - get | | | | miss you, then make sure he realizes what he's |
| into a ballroom dancing class, attend photography | | | | missing. |
| seminars, join the environmental awareness club. Find | | | | Meet him and have a great time. |
| things that you're passionate about and get busy doing | | | | You may go out with him if you feel comfortable doing |
| the things that you like to do. | | | | so - but don't make it easy for him getting that |
| Expand your social horizons. | | | | appointment. If you can manage it, make it sweet but |
| If a guy has been paying you less attention than you | | | | short. Remember, make it memorable, make it fun and |
| deserve, avoiding him will not exactly make him realize | | | | enjoyable, make him long to be with you again. |
| what he's been doing. However, if he sees that you | | | | Live your life. |
| are not affected by his lack of attention and are | | | | Avoiding a guy will only make it look like you're not in |
| receiving attention from others instead, then he just | | | | control of your emotions or of the situation. Show him |
| might wake up and get his act together. | | | | that although you care for him, you don't necessarily |
| Return his call but be unavailable to talk for long. | | | | need him to be happy. He'd appreciate you more for |
| Do not be too eager to return his calls. Play it cool. Do | | | | that. |
| call him back, though, but only before one of your | | | | |
